Life After

Here’s a big surprise for you…..               It still hurts!   Yes, time passes and lives move on, but it still hurts. Deeply   I have learned a lot about myself in the last 15 months. I have learned a lot about the people in my life too, and a lot about the ones I do not want in my life. There is the old saying about “Maybe it’s not everyone else, maybe it’s you”. Well, maybe it is me! But if it is me, I am OK with that. Yes, I’ve changed. Yes, my ability to care deeply about things has gone out the window. Yes, my tolerance for stupid is far less than it was a year ago and YES, I don’t forgive easily and I don’t take the time to sort things out when there seems to be a miscommunication because I have learned, that if I said it out Loud, I more than likely meant it.   The same things still bother me & some days much more than other days. I’ve had a lot more “woosaa” days l...